You don't have to associate with people you don't like.

You may find some individuals distasteful, egotistical, rude, selfish, condescending, unprincipled, raunchy, rowdy, or just plain creepy. Or maybe you can't explain why you don't like someone...you just don't. It stresses you just to be in their presence. When you are, treat them with the same kindness and respect you'd afford anyone else. Then quickly move on. If you can avoid them altogether, so much the better. There's no rule, law or moral precept that says you have to socialize or do business with everyone. (Love thy neighbor doesn't mean you have to like them.) There are enough positive, upbeat people to surround yourself with, without having to consort with those who bum you out.

Posted Friday, July 03, 2009